What digital invitation platforms allowed the smoothest guest RSVP tracking for meal choices and plus-ones without glitching?

What digital invitation platforms allowed the smoothest guest RSVP tracking for meal choices and plus-ones without glitching? Reporting back since a few of you asked — we tested three platforms with our 140-person list and here is what mattered most:

• Plus-one control: the platform must let YOU decide who gets a plus-one, not let guests add their own. One platform let a cousin RSVP for four people we did not invite.
• Meal choice per guest, not per household: this was the glitchiest feature everywhere. Test it yourself with a fake household before sending anything.
• A real export: you want a clean spreadsheet download for your caterer, not a dashboard you have to screenshot.
• Reminder emails built in: saved me from personally texting 30 people.

Whichever you pick, send yourself a test invitation and break it on purpose. Better you find the glitch than your great-aunt.